

The Charisma Craft
A modern leadership guide to enhance your “rizz” factor.
Early praise for The Charisma Craft
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“Real leadership is about how we make others feel in our presence and how they remember us in our absence. The Charisma Craft is a powerful guide to mastering the small behaviors that drive big results. Milam Miller has written a book that every aspiring leader should keep within reach.”
— Dr. Marshall Goldsmith is the Thinkers50 #1 Executive Coach and New York Times bestselling author of The Earned Life, Triggers, and What Got You Here Won’t Get You There.
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“Good communication begins with better words. Great communication starts before a single word is spoken. And no one embodies that more than Milam. The Charisma Craft is a blueprint for leading with confidence, connecting with kindness, and carrying yourself with strength.”
— Jefferson Fisher, trial attorney and New York Times bestselling author of The Next Conversation
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“Charisma has long been seen as an elusive trait, reserved for a select few. In The Charisma Craft, Milam Miller skillfully reframes it as a strategic leadership advantage—rooted in authenticity, boldness, and curiosity. This is an essential read for anyone who wants to lead with greater influence, confidence, and kindness.”
— Dr. Robert Cialdini, author of Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, and Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade.
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"Milam de-mystifies charisma and teaches you how to take simple steps to increase your connection, confidence, and charisma in your work life. This book is a must-read for rising corporate stars!"
— Dr. Nick Morgan, President of Public Words, Inc, and author of Power Cues: The Subtle Science of Leading Groups, Persuading Others, and Maximizing Your Personal Impact
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"Milam has taken an obscure but popular concept in charisma and created a guide to help you access more of what's already inside you. For any leader that wants to be more influential, persuasive, and powerful, this book is a must-read."
— Dr. Alex Auerbach, author of Called to Greatness
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"Charisma, kindness, and authenticity are key ingredients for good leadership, and Milam nails the recipe for how to unlock the charm factor within each of us to build more genuine human relationships that can transcend geographic boundaries. A compelling read for global leaders of any age."
— Lindsay Sarah Krasnoff, sports diplomacy expert and author, Basketball Empire: France and the Making of a Global NBA and WNBA
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"If Ted Lasso and Dale Carnegie teamed up to write a leadership book, it’d look a lot like this. Milam makes charisma feel less like magic and more like a skill anyone can build—with humor and real human connection."
— Nick Coniglio, Co-author of Lead It Like Lasso
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"Equal parts wisdom and wit, The Charisma Craft is like CPR for your leadership style—reviving your rizz and reminding you that real connection always wins. Milam doesn’t just teach charisma—he lives it. Read this if you want to lead with heart, not hype."
— Marnie Stockman, Co-author of Lead It Like Lasso
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“Charisma plays a crucial role in building strong professional relationships and leaving a lasting impression. It enhances your ability to influence, lead, and inspire others, opening doors to new opportunities. In a competitive career landscape, charisma is a skill you should spend time on developing - build your confidence and show up as your authentic self. Building my “Rizz” helped me and I know it will help you, too!”
— Emily Jaenson, Best-Selling Author of Let’s Go! A Guide to Increasing Your Confidence, Top TEDx and Keynote Speaker
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"Milam Miller’s The Charisma Craft isn’t just a book—it’s a wake-up call to start living with more energy, connection, and confidence. His ABC’s—Authenticity, Boldness, and Curiosity—aren’t just ideas; they’re a game plan for making every interaction more meaningful. Want to be seen, heard, and remembered? Start here. Whether you’re leading a team, building relationships, or just looking to feel more alive, this book gives you the tools to do it—with warmth, wit, and a whole lot of heart."
— Jodi Wellman, MAPP and author of You Only Die Once
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"If you're looking to level up your connection game and boost your 'rizz' factor, you must read Milam Miller's The Charisma Craft! Think of it as your friendly coach helping you unlock your own magnetic way of showing up in the world."
— Loree Draude, former Navy Combat Pilot and author of Soar Into Joy: An Aviator's Wisdom on Falling in Love with Your Life
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"Milam's approach to charisma as a learnable skill (not an innate gift!) will change how you connect with others—in boardrooms, Zoom calls, and beyond."
— Lorraine K. Lee, keynote speaker and bestselling author of Unforgettable Presence
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"In a world where creating authentic human connections is both increasingly rare and critical, The Charisma Craft provides a modern blueprint for building this important skill. As Milam expertly demonstrates, charisma isn't a mysterious gift, but a combination of art and science that anyone can master. This book shows how true influence comes from empathy, curiosity, and the courage to be yourself."
— David Priemer, bestselling author of Sell the Way You Buy
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“Charisma matters. It’s a quality we can use to spark and build meaningful relationships. While some of us may be more naturally charismatic than others, Milam teaches us what rizz is, why it matters and how we can each build it in an authentic and healthy way. If you’re a sports fan, you’ll love the examples in this book, and if you don’t yet know Milam, you’ll soon be a fan of his too. An informative, fun and impactful read!”
— Stephen “Shed” Shedletzky, Speaker, Coach & Author of Speak-Up Culture: When Leaders Truly Listen, People Step Up
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"The ability to create an authentic connection is a strategic advantage in our increasingly AI-driven world. Milam's approach redefines charisma as something you can develop as opposed to an innate gift or "X-factor" only afforded to some. It's a perspective more people should adopt."
— J.B. Sauceda, Host & Executive Producer of Texas Country Reporter
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"If you aren't striving for a charismatic brand, you aren’t serving the way you were meant to! Milam’s advice hits at the heart of what you want to be doing; leading the right people, the right way and with the perfect amount of success. Don't miss a chance to discover the charisma craft."
— Kerstin Lindquist, Chief Wellness Coach, Growth Strategist, and host of StRest podcast
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"A genuine and heart-felt guide to discovering our individual charisma by tapping into positive self-belief, curiosity, and a growth mindset. Milam gives us the tools to unlock our potential and reminds us that confidence and kindness is always the right choice."
— Suzanne Sulin, Director of Learning & Development at Bergdorf Goodman
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"When it comes to charisma, Milam Miller has always walked the talk. Now, he’s written the book on it. The Charisma Craft analyzes a trait that seems unattainable to many and, yet, he makes it accessible for all. This is a story-rich, practical, and fun read that you won’t regret picking up."
— Jordyn Benattar, Founder & President of Speakwell
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“Success and connection come from embracing who you truly are. Milam’s advice is straightforward yet profound: be yourself, give your best effort, and you’ll find that others will naturally be drawn to your energy—and the results will follow. It’s a refreshing take on leadership that encourages self-trust and integrity.”
— Todd Kaminski | Sales Leader, Executive Coach, Tennis Enthusiast
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“In this book, Milam unlocks the secrets of charisma, showing that it’s a learnable skill and not some mysterious gift. Through real-world examples and practical exercises, readers will boost their ‘rizz’ and elevate their happiness, influence, and success.”
— Rich Hua, Worldwide Head of EPIC, AWS
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“Milam Miller breaks down charisma like a science, making it feel accessible to anyone, not just the naturally magnetic. His step-by-step approach is refreshingly practical, turning influence into a learnable craft rather than a mysterious gift. Think of him as the real-life Ted Lasso of leadership—warm, wise, and impossible not to root for.”
— Danielle Letayf, CEO & Founder of Badassery
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"The Charisma Craft is a blueprint for anyone ready to tap into their charisma, or 'kuh-RIZZ-muh' - a quality that's essential in a world where making real human connections feels rarer than ever. Milam Miller takes this idea and runs with it, breaking down charisma into something accessible, actionable, and incredibly relatable. With compelling examples from pop culture and real-world stories, Milam provides the tools you need to confidently connect with anyone, anywhere. Charisma isn’t just about being charming; it’s about making others feel seen, heard, and valued."
— Lauren Vilips, Gen Z + Creator Economy Expert & Influencer Strategist
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“In a world hungry for connection, The Charisma Craft delivers. Milam Miller brings fresh insight into how modern leaders can lead with authenticity, empathy, and presence. This book is a reminder that charisma isn’t about ego—it’s about serving and creating space where others feel seen, heard, and empowered to thrive.”
— Jackie Yeaney, former CMO of Tableau, Board Director, and Executive Coach
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"Forget being born with it. Milam shows us charisma is simply the art of human connection, and this book will transform how you influence people forever."
— Pia Mailhot-Leichter, best-selling author of Welcome to the Creative Club
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“In The Charisma Craft, Milam Miller takes the mystery out of charisma and reframes it as a critical interpersonal skill. Drawing from communication science and leadership research, he offers practical tools that anyone can use to strengthen their influence and build more meaningful connections. This is an important and timely contribution.”
— Dr. John Daly, professor of Communication and author of Advocacy: Championing Ideas and Influencing Others

About The Charisma Craft
Are you a high-achiever who excels at your job, but you still feel overlooked, undervalued, or stuck in your career?
In today’s AI-powered workplace, talent alone isn’t enough. To stand out, inspire, and lead, you need to master the art of charismatic connection — your ability to truly see other people and leave a lasting impression.

About Milam Miller
Milam Miller is a keynote speaker, sales coach, and founder of Be Confident & Kind — a boutique leadership development practice. With fifteen years of global experience leading sales teams in sports, he has negotiated deals, built high-performing teams, and developed leaders at every level. Now, he helps ambitious professionals sharpen their charisma, communication, and executive presence to increase their influence and impact.
